Premature Ejaculation is the most common male sexual problem, particularly among young men.
Dear Sarah,
How does one overcome premature ejaculation?
Dear anonymous,
Premature Ejaculation is the most common male sexual problem, particularly among young men, it is not often discussed. But what if you blow your load before you get your pants down?
What girls think when you come too early?
The truth hurts. Girls like guys who can keep their shit together and not cum before they can make hooking up with them worth it. A real man can control arousal. Don’t be fooled by polite comments that your one-minute wonder performance was worth her while. That’s not what she’s really thinking. If this happens once in a while, it’s no big deal, really. It’s just something to think about.
Just like guys talk about girls that they’ve slept with to show off to their friends, girls often talk about their boyfriend’s sexual performance with their girlfriends.
Thankfully, it’s not all about intercourse. She might be a bit disappointed, but maybe you’re satisfying her in other ways. If that’s the case everything may be great! If you master foreplay and display sexual confidence, intercourse becomes much less important to a girl than you would think.
Here's how to deal with premature ejaculation...
When you have sex with a girl you want to satisfy her and be remembered as a great lover. Noticing a look of deception in her eyes is the last thing you want to experience. The only thing that might be worse is hearing her say: Have you finished already? It’s probably your worst nightmare. What can you do to deal with this embarrassing situation?
If you are single and sleep with different girls, it’s impossible to build the sort of intimacy you would find in a long-term relationship. Hooking up with different girls has the advantage of denial, and none of them know that you have a problem. You can blame them for their beauty or for how great they are in bed. But you know the truth.
How long is long enough?
Girls mostly experience sex within their minds. Even if you were able to last 3 hours, if a girl doesn’t have the right mindset she’ll never get off. It’s important to make girls feel appreciated and comfortable with you. Without taking these factors into consideration even sustained penetration won’t bring her satisfaction!
Sex isn’t about duration or inches. It’s enough when your partner feels satisfied. There are no hard and fast rules about what is long enough or short enough, but if you can’t keep from coming in less than 10 minutes, you should take care of your performance issues, for your own sake.
Premature Ejaculation is a complex problem that requires a holistic approach. Kegel exercises and powerful breathing techniques will give you a big endurance boost. Master foreplay and learn dirty sex positions that will help you last longer in bed and give her the most intense orgasms ever.