There is a chance that you are making some mistakes when it comes to doing it with your bae.
There are some certain mistakes you are making that can totally ruin your sexual experience, which is the last thing you want to do when you are getting it on.
Sex should be fun and exciting, and in order to have fun, you want to make sure you’re doing everything right. Below are things you are doing wrong during sex, and how to stop doing them.
1. Not asking for what you want
You have to tell your bae what you want. How will they know unless you tell them, right? Tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't feel good. After all, sex is supposed to be for both of you to enjoy!
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2. Faking an orgasm
According to a new study, 68 percent of women fake their orgasms. If your partner is climaxing, you should be too. Sex is for both people, not just one. If only one person is finishing, it's really not fair. Also, according to the same study, it can cause harm to your relationship, since your partner might get embarrassed or feel bad that you can't orgasm. The best thing for you to do is talk it out and explain exactly what you like.
3. Not using protection
Lots of guys will probably tell you that using a condom doesn't feel good for them. If that's the case, don't have sex with them. You really have to protect yourself from STD's and pregnancy.
4. Giving but not getting
Another thing you might be doing wrong is giving your partner all of the attention, while you're left with nothing. Sure, it's great to give your partner a BJ, but that doesn't mean they can't return the favor, right? Make sure they are doing stuff to make you feel good, too! It's vital.
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5. Thinking too much
It's actually really important to try and not overthink stuff, especially when you're having sex. You might feel super self-conscious or nervous that you're not doing things right, but the less you think and the more you go with the flow, the better you will feel.