A lot of ladies find oral sex difficult to handle.
Oral sex for some ladies can be challenging and there are many reasons why she doesn’t want to give you a blowjob.
Below are 3 things that keep her from giving head.
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1. Good girls don’t do it
This one often comes from a religious or conservative upbringing where she was taught that giving head is a "sin" or something that "good girls" don’t do. And guys actually make this worse by treating a blowjob as the best part of sex.
2. She’s scared to swallow
A lot of guys have this unrealistic expectation that women should be willing to swallow. In the real world, women that really like doing that are pretty rare. Once you get more advanced you can learn some techniques for getting her to want to swallow and maybe even enjoy it.
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3. She doesn’t think she’s good at oral sex
One of the biggest reasons why women don't like giving head is because they don't think they are any good at it. Fact is most women have "low blowjob self-esteem" and are scared that you’re going to tell them what they’re doing doesn’t measure up in some way.
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