It's been four months of this and I'm so confused. I don't know what to do or think.
Dear Bukky,
I am in a four months old relationship with my boyfriend. He is 29 and I am 27. I love him so much but I don't feel he does. He can go a whole day without checking up on me. I've invited him over to my place on three occasions but he disappointed by not showing up or giving an excuse but when he wants to see me he follows up with text till I show up.
We hardly talk on phone and I've drawn his attention to it several times. The last time I brought up the communication situation he accused me of being petty and making a big deal out of nothing.
Last week for instance we were supposed to meet after work I called several times and sent a message but there was no reply till I contacted him again the next day and he apologized. I'm confused I don't know what to do or think.
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Dear reader,
I think you are in a relationship with yourself. This is as one-sided as they come and as we already said in this article here, “with inconsistent partners, gloriously affectionate moments are closely followed by dreadful disappearing acts that leave you feeling dumbfounded and crazy.”
What that partner does is known as playing the disappearing game or known as going on and off. This is a toxic way to be in a relationship and you deserve better.
Any partner who does not give you 100% every time, who won’t be there when you need them isn't good enough.
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