We have dated now for six years out which we did not see each other for three years consecutively.
Hello Bukky,
I am dating an HIV positive babe. I do not mind her health status because she is on treatment. It is a long distance relationship. I am in Kano while she is in Ogun.
We have dated now for six years out which we did not see each other for three years consecutively but during this period she dated two other guys in Ogun state.
She told me this when I was opportuned to travel home though she parted ways with them.
When I returned to Kano, she declared to me during our phone conversation that she's no longer interested in the relationship, that she does not love me again and emphasizing the fact that I am not serious about the wedding.
I was shocked. I begged her to reverse her decision but she stood her ground. I sought the assistance of her sister & her mum but all to no avail.
What do I do?
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Dear reader,
Six years is a long, long time to be with someone without making up your mind on what you want.
She’s right, in my opinion, to stand her ground on the marriage thing.
Well, you said you are not concerned about her health; so what else could the issue be holding you back from giving her the level of commitment she demands from you?
I think you should let sleeping dogs lie unless you have and you're willing what she’s asking for.
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