It's an illicit act right now, but oral sex was also illicit a couple of years ago. Here is what you need to know.
You already know what rimming is, in case you don’t know what it is, let me just put it bluntly, its called ass eating. Yup, tongue into anal region, it sounds disgusting, but the recipient won’t feel disgusted but rather intense pleasure.
it is one of those things not everyone is into right now, but some people are ahead of their time,and enjoying it already. It’s like what sucking dick or eating pussy was like 30 years ago. People saw them in porn movies, very little people participated in them but now, it’s almost equal to penetrative sex.
We’re here to help you navigate these waters. So, let’s begin
1. It involves kissing and licking of the asshole
No bullshit or fancy way of coating it. It involves the tease or arousal of the anal region with the tongue, and the receiver feels the intense pleasure.
2. How pleasurable is it?
For something that sounds very disgusting, you may be curious as to how pleasurable it is. There are several nerve ending located around the anus and when they’re stimulated, they can highly pleasurable, keyword is highly but it is seen by the larger audience as a taboo. Like every other thing, oral sex was a taboo too but look where we are now.
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3. How do I start
Because of the nature of, one of the most important thing to do is to take a thorough bath. After doing this, then try to get your partner into the mood with foreplay. You can even start the foreplay at the shower, help each other bathe, even more romantic before the anal adventure. It requires a lot of foreplay. If the guy is the giver, it might be better to shave off the scruffy beard, the beard that is just growing in unless she like the feel of that against her skin.
4. What position is best
If it’s the first time for the receiver and giver, you both need to relax and play down the nervousness. The best position for rimming is the receiving partners on all fours, like doggy style, with the ass in the air. It’s good not to go directly for the anus, you can start by caressing the ass, try light or rough squeeze depending on what she likes then you can move on to using the finger to trace along the butt cheeks to the anus. Spend some time also kissing the cheeks. Tease her slowly as you make your way to her asshole.
The guy can stand or kneel depending on the height differences between both.
5. What are the techniques to use
Since you’re new into this, it’s only fair to know what to do with the tongue down there. One technique to use is to work the tongue tip in circular motion around anus, you can work it by growing the circle or reducing the radius of the circle, as it goes around. Another technique you can use is try using your tongue to do a figure-eight.
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Here is a bonus point, while performing rimming, it’s possible to transmit STI’s like every other sexual act. There is risk of Hepatitis A, B, and C and other health concerns. Unless you’re both convinced of your partner’s sexual health, you should use protection before rimming them.
Cut open a non-lubricated condom, the lubricated ones can taste gross, spread out the condom over the asshole and continue your business. Also avoid going from the eating to the pussy to eating the ass, it’s dangerous. The vagina is quite sensitive to bacteria that are located outside the vagina, this can cause infection.